You can’t defend an action by pointing to the actions of others, not in a courtroom, not in politics, not in an argument with your significant other, not anywhere, not ever.
Yeah, but he did, she did, or they did doesn’t excuse what you or whoever you’re defending did.
This is something we all should have learned when we were five years old. If we missed that lesson, it’s time to catch up.
I’m saying this because I’ve noticed people have a habit of attempting to excuse one person’s bad behavior by pointing to someone else’s bad behavior. Oh, you think THIS person told a lie, committed an act of violence, started a war, misused their power, acted like a dim-witted bogot? Well, what about what THAT person did?
What about it? What does that have to do with the thing we’re discussing right now? Are we expected to ignore a broken bone because cancer exists? I don’t get this line of reasoning.
You wouldn’t leave a pile of crap on your rug because there’s a bigger pile of crap on someone else’s. Crap is crap. Acknowledge it and do your best to clean it up. Then we can talk about how to deal with the next mess.